Chimamaka Hephzibah's Blog: Life is not all rainbows and butterflies. It can ...

Chimamaka Hephzibah's Blog: Life is not all rainbows and butterflies.  It can ...: Life is not all rainbows and butterflies.  It can be tough sometimes.  And you’ve paid a heavy price to get this far, so the best option ...

Knowing Me , Knowing you

I was just wondering what makes some families unique from others,you look at those families and you feel the love among them ,you see the real smiles on their faces and all you can say is all is "perhaps one day, mine will be this good".
    One thing that sustains a relationship is knowing your friends and your friends knowing you , It is important that both sides understand each other ,It really hurts when the people around you don't understand you .
   Their are two friends who just met each other, and yeah they tend to always be with each other - and they should!,do some shit together but never really got to understand each other, their differences, backgrounds and short-comings .They continued in this kind of relationship nevertheless for a while hoping things will take a turn for the better but all they needed to do was to understand each other, i guess the most point people miss is that life experiences can affect our mannerisms . Religion, cultural values,families and so many other factors makes it impossible for humans to relate well.Accepting one another differences can lead to a better understanding,which means that in the quest of understanding the people around you ,you should be able to accept them the way they are, not trying to change them, though this may be tasking, it's also a beauty to hav

 Understanding is an attribute so many people lack-perhaps  we are all selfish in a way. obviously knowing someone is not the only thing that keeps a relationship going ,something more is needed to sustain it. Most marriages are primed for collision and relationships are simply hanging by the feather, and both parties just keep acting like everything is alright, when nothing is OK.Take it as a responsibility to understand those around you ,and when doing this know that you can only learn to cope with them but you can't really change who they are.
And if you really want to know the truth too...I've to confess:"i'm not alright myself"

Great dream starts now...........

Hello peeps, after so much thought, tease and inertia i have finally summoned the courage to put to print, my opinions, fears, my insecurities and my joy through the eyes of a young , vibrant lady desperate to breathe under this abundant sky.


So join me and savor every bit of my everyday experience of a young adult wading through murky waters of opportunities, stereotypes which i am baptized into unto my path of self-discovery. My baby steps starts here.....